The question related to a quit claim deed and the process by which it gets filed. The lawyer who handled my divorce in 2006 neglected (by neglected, I mean he took my damn money but didn't finish the job...) to file a quit claim deed, to remove my now ex-husbands name from the mortgage. Well, long story short, it came back to bite me in the butt and all hell broke loose Monday night.
Today I got the answer I was looking for...and I go back on Friday to file the documents.
It seems the ex isn't paying his bills (d'uh) and a credit card company (which he owes more than 5K to) had subpoenaed the financial info from my mortgage company (because his name is still on the mortgage). It appears the sneaky bastards were gonna try to put a lien on my house.
Did I mention he's also $33K behind in child support?.................
Something similar to this happened to my dad before he passed away. His wife convinced him to do a quit claim on the joint property that he basically paid for but she owned (deep in debt) and she was to not take any of his assets. He got a little drunk and signed it with nothing but her word. The she later divorced him, kept the property he paid off for her and then proceeded to take 50% of every asset he had. He later stuck a 12 gauge shotgun in his mouth and pulled the trigger. He was 82 and in poor health so I guess he figured he had enough.
Thats a sad story. It happens more than you might suspect. My mom owned her home out right, she had a heart attack and while in recovery my sisters two daughters, got her to sign a quick claim deed so the state wouldn't take her property.
When she got out of the hospital my sisters daughters tried to have her evicted so they could sell the house. My sister died in my mothers arms after losing a battle to cancer at age 39. My mother raised my sisters children.
Losing her home with thier way of paying her back.
There is truly evil in the world and it might be a relative.
Yep, I miss him soooo much and wish I had the chance to talk to him before he did it.
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Such a heartbreaking story.
I know you miss him...but don't ever forget...he's still with you and always will be. I hope you aren't letting guilt and remorse consume you.
That being said.......
My Mom died on May 20, and the guilt I carry in my heart is messing with my head in a way I never imagined. I regret not being a more attentive daughter...I regret that I never took the time to visit my parents so she could meet her new son-in-law. I was always too busy to talk to her when she called. Funny, I made plenty of time for Corvette friends, Corvette trips and Vette stuff, but I was always too busy to take a trip to Mom & Dad's. She used to call me and would cry when she said how much she wished she could see me. I didn't see her for 3 years before she died, and when I made it to the hospital to be with her before she died, the last words she spoke were, "look Daddy, Sissy is here..." She died 3 days later.
I dunno guys...I gotta find a way to snap out of this. The emotional roller coaster is torture. Every time I look at my Vette...I remember how much I neglected my Mom. If I could have just 5 minutes with her........
Would your mother have wanted to have any other than you? No.
Do not regret your mother going home, we all are born to die, and in that dieing were are reborn to ourselves.......for we were before this life. Do not grive for your mom, in this life, it holds her back in the next life.
Thank your mother for being her and let her go.
Just as you would wish the same for you when you go home. We are spirtitual beings having a physical experience........
After reading some of these posts I feel lucky and blessed .Even though my birth mother didn't raise me i'll give her a call today just to say HI.
I also think there aren't many people who don't feel guilty about something .
I don't, I'm a former Boy Scout. If I drink too much theres no-one around to yell at me about it . If I smoke pot samething. The only time in my life that I've ever felt guilty was when I took the ex's opinion of me seriously.......guilty and stupid.
Thats why I offered the use of my youngest son. Hell at my age I don't want to spend jail time .
