Yep we've been together since the first grade and married for 45 years ,She is my best friend and the love of my life .
She has accepted a position in Beijing China setting up an advanced college English program .She'll be gone 14 months .She has been to china before but only 4 months at a time .I've been very supportive because it's something she wants to do and I want her to be happy .
Now comes the problems : Whose going to feed my dog? What about my Xmas gift?Plus it's to late to get a good room in Key west during fantasy fest .
I'm going to close off 10-12 rooms and move a bed into the master bath room along with the microwave and big screen TV .
14 months! Maybe you should go visit her in China every couple of months for a week or two? I'd be lost without my wife. I'd have to hire a nanny to take care of me and my two grown kids. But you have your dog, so you'll be fine!
14 months! Maybe you should go visit her in China every couple of months for a week or two? I'd be lost without my wife. I'd have to hire a nanny to take care of me and my two grown kids. But you have your dog, so you'll be fine!
So you can imagine Ken what a shock this can be .Being ADD I don't know if I could make the flight although I'm looking at the possibility of going over during Chinese new years when my wife won't be teaching .My suite case would be packed with toilet paper and food I can identify .
Consider yourself lucky........ I got divorced in 1974......never did that again. 34 years single, its been a good run.......I hope to die single.
I like women, just don't want to live with them, they're misearable and hate it when a man isn't. Then theres thier azzhole family, and those idiots want to come around on every holiday, I hated it.
Steve I know that you like your wife, and thats ok. But trust me in 14 months you could get use to not being nagged.
So question? Should I trash GT........the Wine and Cheese might be fun for some, but for me I'm brutal. I have never had anything, no family, no friends, no wife, everyone believes in something, I don't believe in anything but survival.
If I trash the azzhole, I'll get banned but it might be worth it. I think he's got it coming.
I don't go to the other site much anymore, after Speedie pissed on my parade. I don't care about Speedie, I wont go after her because she's a woman and a decent person. But GT asked for it.
You know he hides behind the facade that he's only kidding but in most cases he just a azzhole.
Consider yourself lucky........ I got divorced in 1974......never did that again. 34 years single, its been a good run.......I hope to die single.
I like women, just don't want to live with them, they're miserable and hate it when a man isn't. Then theres their azzhole family, and those idiots want to come around on every holiday, I hated it.
Steve I know that you like your wife, and thats ok. But trust me in 14 months you could get use to not being nagged.
So question? Should I trash GT........the Wine and Cheese might be fun for some, but for me I'm brutal. I have never had anything, no family, no friends, no wife, everyone believes in something, I don't believe in anything but survival.
If I trash the azzhole, I'll get banned but it might be worth it. I think he's got it coming.
I don't go to the other site much anymore, after Speedie pissed on my parade. I don't care about Speedie, I wont go after her because she's a woman and a decent person. But GT asked for it.
You know he hides behind the facade that he's only kidding but in most cases he just a azzhole.
Actually the wife seldom nags as it wouldn't do any good .We're both free spirits but have always been faithfully .She other uses the phrase " It's all about You Stephen " and I agree .I have female acquaintances like Speedie and several others and she knows it's just friends and it's never been an issue .
Well ,GT -------
I actually took his post in question as a drunk being drunk. .I've met him a few times and talked with him on the phone .In person he's a decent person and actually isn't that bad most of the time .MOST being the key word .Was his post serious ?probably some basis ,his wife is Hispanic .
I always felt I could give my natural mother a heart attack by marrying a Jewish .black Democrat .Now thats a women who is prejudice .If she wasn't a member of the KKK I'm sure she was the sec/treasurer .Fortunately the people who raised me we're just the opposite .I take each person for what they are .
If you read the rules of W&C you can say about anything you want and cover it up with a smiley or say just kidding or sorry.Keep in mind W&C was Parrots idea ,which explains his character .
I'm fairly tolerable of people as long as they aren't in my face .I post in the W&C but I don't like bashing people and actually I don't .I think that I actually get on Parrots nerves for not being an azz .It's just not me .
redwing76 wrote:I don't go to the other site much anymore, after Speedie pissed on my parade. I don't care about Speedie, I wont go after her because she's a woman and a decent person.
Really, Bud??? WTF??? How did I piss on your parade? That has never been my intent. I like you, Jones. I like you a lot. We agree to disagree and leave it alone.......
If you had (have) a problem with me, you have my phone number and several other ways to get in touch. How am I supposed to apologize if I don't know what I'm apologizing for?
Anyone interested can goggle "haidian foreign language shiyan school Beijing " This will be where my wife will teach and act as a consultant .It's not what you'd expect to see in china ,very advanced campus .Science starts in the third grade .
Looks like a great school from their web site. You may want to go visit and maybe pick up some Chinese?
I'm ADD and it's a 17hr flight ,It's really not that expensive ,about $1000 RT ticket on a Boeing 777 .They supply my wife with an apartment ,food ,pay her medical ,plane ticket ,more money than here and it's tax free plus performance bonuses.
I might go over mid February ,tough choice it's about the same time as race week at Daytona.I guess it all depends on how tired I get of sheep.
I can be to real for some.........I sugar coat nothing.
I don't disagree with you, I also don't agree with you. But I consider you and Steve to be decent people.
Each person on this planet has a story. An individual and important story, but its a very personal story. Not many agree on anything.
Once the mind is set its seeks its own level. Unfortunately its usually the same level as water. The lowest point. This isn't about you or anyone else, its just the way it is.
On some level you know this is true.
"The only one that you can change is yourself".
"An impeccable warrior has no where for a spear to pierce", "Our only enemy is overselves". Carlos Castaneda.......Journey to Ixtlan.
If there is adventure in turning over one rock, why stop there?
Take pride in your goodness, but I can show you worlds that you could never imagine....I walk the center path, knowing both the right and the left, but choosing niether.
???? Guess ya had to be there ????
